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Post by Mastery on Oct 21, 2009 20:27:55 GMT -5
I'll do your testy thing tomorrow... *cough*
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Post by Chromeo on Oct 21, 2009 20:28:12 GMT -5
Bye. Thanks for trying to help...
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Post by AwesomeFawful on Oct 21, 2009 20:32:29 GMT -5
No problem..... .....
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Post by AwesomeFawful on Oct 21, 2009 20:35:04 GMT -5
Okay, Fawful is returning to his internet persona now.....
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Post by little j ᵛᵉʳᶦᶠᶦᵉᵈ ✔ on Oct 21, 2009 21:36:20 GMT -5
I have to agree with Nitro about the whole "it could be worse" thing. You're downplaying what is a very real issue to someone. You're skipping over the issue instead of addressing it, and that is aggravating beyond all reason. As he said, it's making someone feel guilty about being unhappy, which becomes a very negative feedback loop.
Don't feel bad about feeling bad! That's one of the grandest lesson I have learned.
Good luck, Nitro.
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Post by Chromeo on Oct 22, 2009 10:35:48 GMT -5
Things I want to become:
Confident Better looking Respected Richish 'Content' Somebody's boyfriend?... >_>
Things I think are wrong with me:
My appearance Lazy My life is pointless No direction I hate myself Depressed Furfag Lonely Weak Cowardly
I guess that will do for now. It's not a complete list though >_>
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Post by Chromeo on Oct 22, 2009 10:38:48 GMT -5
Things I want to become:
Confident Better looking Respected
Richish 'Content' Somebody's boyfriend?... >_>
Things I think are wrong with me:
My appearance Lazy My life is pointless No direction
I hate myself Depressed Furfag
Lonely Weak Cowardly
am i doin it rite?
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Post by Tails82 on Oct 22, 2009 10:38:49 GMT -5
My suggestion:
Things I think are wrong with me:
My appearance Lazy Depressed/My life is pointless No direction I hate myself Furfag Lonely Weak/Cowardly
Hey look, 2 less already!
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Post by Chromeo on Oct 22, 2009 10:39:57 GMT -5
Okay, so those probably should be together.
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Post by Chromeo on Oct 22, 2009 10:41:44 GMT -5
I will admit not really understanding this exercise.
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Post by Tails82 on Oct 22, 2009 10:43:54 GMT -5
I don't get it either...
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Post by Chromeo on Oct 22, 2009 10:45:10 GMT -5
I'm guessing... trying to get me to put in place goals to change the things I feel are problems?
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Post by Chromeo on Oct 22, 2009 10:47:35 GMT -5
Really though, "be confident" is not a very useful goal.
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Post by Tails82 on Oct 22, 2009 10:48:24 GMT -5
More tangible goals like the "say hi to someone" make more sense.
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Post by Chromeo on Oct 22, 2009 10:58:45 GMT -5
I did talk to some random person in the medical office a few days ago for like half an hour. She smokes 6 cigarettes a day, she also has a friend called Lewis, who is "a bastard". And she is way behind on her Food Tech work. We never even exchanged names >_>
Is that satisfactory?...
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